Typ a "język" miłości

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Typ a "język" miłości

#1 Post autor: Intan » środa, 11 lutego 2015, 12:58

How Does Each Personality Type Ask “Do You Love Me?”

▶ Harmony Types: ENFJ, INFJ, ESFJ, ISFJ

“Do you love me?”
  • Do you feel connected to me?
  • Will you check in and make sure I’m okay?
  • Will you acknowledge and take care of my needs?
  • Am I safe with you?
  • Do you accept and approve of me?
“Yes! I love you!”
  • I will meet your needs before I meet my own.
  • I will check in regularly and make sure you’re okay.
  • I will do my best to keep morale up.
  • I will show you appreciation in whatever way I’d like to be shown appreciation.
How it can be misinterpreted by other types: Smothering, intrusive.

▶ Authenticity Types: ENFP, INFP, ESFP, ISFP

“Do you Love Me?”
  • Do you think I’m being real with you?
  • Do you trust my motives and my intent?
  • Will you support me no matter what – do you have my back?
  • Will you give me space to be “me?”
“Yes! I love you!”
  • I will be patient with your honest expressions.
  • I will honor your feelings and identity, even if it’s a struggle for both of us.
  • I will hold space for you, and give you alone time when you need it.
  • I will have your back no matter what the fight is.
  • I will trust you have my best interests at heart.
How it can be misinterpreted by other types: Passive, self-absorbed


▶ Effectiveness Types: ENTJ, INTJ, ESTJ, ISTJ

“Do you Love Me?”
  • Will you handle things – can I rely on you?
  • Will you make my life easier, can I relax knowing you’re “on it?”
  • Will you support my career and/or goals and be self-sufficient?
  • Are you loyal?
“Yes! I love you!”
  • I will be endlessly loyal on principle.
  • I will educate myself on you and learn how you operate.
  • I will take pride in you, boasting about your accomplishments even before my own.
  • I will protect you.
  • I chose you. I continue to choose you. Case closed.
How it can be misinterpreted by other types: Controlling, distant, “unromantic”


▶ Accuracy Types: ENTP, INTP, ESTP, ISTP

“Do you Love Me?”
  • Do you think I’m totally competent?
  • Are you impressed with my performance?
  • Do you trust that I’m not lying to you or B.S.’ing you in any way?
  • Does it make sense that you love me? That you stay with me?
“Yes! I love you!”
  • I will be rigorously honest with you. If I have a ‘wandering eye’ I will tell you, and provide a solution.
  • I will gift you with my precision. I will learn you and give high performance at all levels.
  • I will protect you from others, but not from yourself.
  • I will never judge you. Instead, I will be there for you when things go bad, no matter why they went bad.
How it can be misinterpreted by other types: Harsh, insensitive, cold
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Re: Typ a "język" miłości

#2 Post autor: Ninque » piątek, 13 lutego 2015, 14:06

dzięki Intan <3

interesujące... i sumie mam dylemat pomiędzy oboma etycznymi "klubami"
Jeżeli można było zrobić penicylinę ze spleśniałego chleba, z pewnością da się coś zrobić też z Ciebie.

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Re: Typ a "język" miłości

#3 Post autor: Intan » piątek, 13 lutego 2015, 15:06

Nie ma za co. :3 U mnie to też nie jest jednoznaczne. Widzę, że w każdej naprawdę bliskiej relacji, typu przyjaźń lub związek, potrzebuję właśnie tego, co opisane zostało jako typowe dla m.in. INFP, by czuć się swobodnie i bezpiecznie, ale niemal równocześnie pragnę tego, co przypisano typom FJ. :f To chyba vwłaśnie takie trochę "potrzebuję vs pragnę"...
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